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    • A Corrected Perception
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  • Sponsor Talk
    • Action Plans
    • Books to Read
    • Beware of Expectations
    • Bookending
    • Daily Sobriety Log
    • Determining Sobriety
    • Dry Drunk
    • External & Internal
    • Getting Sick, Getting Better
    • How Did I Get Here?
    • Making Amends
    • Mindreading
    • On The Road
    • Progression of Learning
    • Retro-setting Sobriety
    • Self-Care
    • Skirting the Pool
    • Slip Guards
    • Slip Reports
    • Step Down Programs
    • Stopping Masturbation
    • The Truth Battle
    • When Your Sponsor Relapses
    • Why Do I Have to Work the Steps?
  • Sponsor Blog
    • The Double Whammy
    • How Do I Get Started?
    • A Ticking Time Bomb
    • Fear of Missing Out
    • What if I have a broken wanter?
    • Redefining Success
    • Good news. Bad news.
    • A Corrected Perception
    • Distraction
    • Conscious vs. Subconscious
    • The Trench and the Pebbles
    • Truth & Lies
    • The Pool Part II
    • Thoughts on Surrender
    • The Pool Parable
  • Step Guide
    • SA Meetings
    • File Versions
    • Prep
    • Resources
    • Step 1
    • Step 2
    • Step 3
    • Step 4
    • Step 5
    • Step 6
    • Step 7
    • Step 8
    • Step 9
    • Step 10
    • Step 11
    • Step 12
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